Monday, March 21, 2016

Berry's Never Have I Ever Challenge

I am SO glad Strawberry Singh is bringing back her Monday Memes! Sometimes it's nearly impossible to come up with a topic to post about and I love the way she offers these memes up!

This week to start the ball rolling again, she's going with the Never Have I Ever challenge... though, seriously, if you know me at all you'll know that there's really very little I've never done.

With that being said...
  1. Never have I ever had sex, in Second Life. No, never. What kind of girl do you think I am? Oh... right... one that has a lot of sex. I think that there are very few people who haven't had sex in SL, even if just once to satisfy the curiosity factor. But me? Yes, I have had sex, and will continue to have sex, in SL. Often. 
  2. Never have I ever visited a sex sim, in Second Life. Yes, many of them. Some from my early days years ago that I can't remember the name of, or are long gone, some that are still thriving. And anytime a new one opens, I do try to pop by to check it out. #NoShame
  3. Never have I ever been an escort or stripper, in Second Life. For about a minute. Several years ago I thought stripping looked like fun and an easy way to make some lindens. I found the classiest joint I could, interviewed, got hired and got to work. Stripping is hard, y'all! Figuring out how to wear the right layers so things could be removed all seductively, keeping up with who was entering the club so I could greet them, coming up with a good emote every time I got tipped and not missing anyone... It was most definitely not fun. It was then I realized that I have no desire to work in SL. Just play, thanks.
  4. Never have I ever been in porn videos in Second Life. With someone else? No. Once upon a time I dated a fella for a few months who was an SL porn star and I toyed with the idea, mainly because the vast majority of SL porn is just absolutely awful. Painfully awful. Embarrassingly awful. And I found the SL porn community to be full of needless goofy ass drama, a lot of back-stabbers and, well... dumb-asses. So, no, I never did that but I did do a couple of masturbation scenes on my own just playing around. I'd like to do more of it, but again... too much work. Making it look good is more effort than I want to expend. Photography is enough for now. Never say never, though!
  5. Never have I ever done things that may be illegal in the real world, in Second Life. Oddly enough, I really don't think I have, unless maybe you count countries ruled by Sharia law. I don't do drugs in RL and never saw the appeal of doing fake drugs in SL, mainly because I have a pretty low opinion of illegal drug users. I understand addiction, and it's ugly. I don't see the sense of glorifying it in SL. Maybe I've flown a helicopter without a license? 
  6. Never have I ever created an ALT for secret activities, in Second Life. Well, Beth Macbain is technically an alt. When I started SL, I didn't think I wanted to be me so I made Allie Renard. After a few months, I just didn't feel comfortable being her and started fresh as Beth Macbain. Then there was that ugly incident a couple of years ago when I created that stupid ass alt so I could cheat on my partner. I lasted less than a week, I think, and was horrible at lying and felt so damn guilty that I came clean. Probably the stupidest thing I've done in Second Life and I'm still ashamed of it. 
  7. Never have I ever had a one night stand, in Second Life. I have. Not all that many because I really am choosy and usually know before the first time I have sex with a man that I'm going to want a second night. Not always, though... I've had a few and none of them were fulfilling. I really prefer to have some sort of a connection, to at least like the man. 
  8. Never have I ever been part of a roleplay community, in Second Life. Briefly, and I sucked at it. A couple of years after I started being Beth Macbain, I fell for a guy. That guy turned out to be a girl role-playing as a guy. I don't know what was going through my head, because for some reason, I thought I should try RP. So I resurrected Allie Renard as a role-player and joined... hell, I don't even remember what community it was. I didn't enjoy it, was pissed that I'd been played by a woman pretending to be a man, angry at all my friends who knew and didn't tell me, and I packed up my shit and left SL for a year or so. So, yeah, role-playing didn't really work out for me. 
  9. Never have I ever discovered a new fetish, because of Second Life. No, I don't think I have. At my age, most of my kinks are already pretty well established. SL has certainly given me a chance to explore some of them more in-depth than I've been able to in real life, but the kinks were already there. 
  10. Never have I ever done things in Second Life that I wouldn’t admit to my friends or family. Yeah, I don't really advertise to my friends and family that I'm a sexual goddess in Second Life. Friends and family know I love SL and spend a lot of time here, they knew about my two year relationship, and they know I'm a photographer and blogger. They do not know my SL name, about this blog, or my Flickr or about the fact that my sex toy/furniture folder is second only in size to my lingerie folder. It's not that I'm ashamed of it... it's just an odd topic of conversation to bring up in real life conversations. And I protect my identity because my job would most definitely frown on my Second Life in all its glory. 
So there you have it... Never Have I Ever. 

Happy Monday, lovelies!


  1. This is great Beth! I really love your well exposure in your blog .. you share your emotions and feelings as well as things a lot of folks won't talk about in a way that is encouraging . I guess Iam trying to say I admire the way you embrace your sl.

    1. Thank you so much, Owl! That means a lot to me. :-)

  2. You know I have to agree with you, I also think there are very few people on the grid that have NOT had sex in SL. Even if they're intentions when joining had nothing to do with that, I think it's just human nature and we all get curious about it. Thank you for participating!

  3. I've just installed iStripper, and now I can watch the sexiest virtual strippers on my desktop.


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